In 2026 my wife had surgery. We have five kids under seven years old and I work hybrid. Our friends and family wanted to help. My phone was buzzing with offers: meals, rides to school, “I can come sit with the kids any afternoon.” It was overwhelming in the good way.
And then immediately overwhelming in the bad way. What I actually needed was someone at the house between 2 and 4 on Thursday — not twenty amazing offers to help. I needed actual help.
“Just tell us how to help.”So I built a tool for us. People could see the day, pick a slot, and put their name down. Our friends' didn't need a login or account. If a name was on a slot, it was covered. If it was empty, that's what we needed. People signed up, and our friends were thankful for the ability to help and our family got the help it needed.
Friends used it. Friends of friends asked to use it. So I'm made the real thing for anyone going through surgery, a new baby, a hard diagnosis, a stretch of hard-parenting, or just a season where the village wants to show up and doesn't know how. It takes a village - start saying yes to the help.